Bridget Jones Has Finally Learned Katrina Trinko | Acculturated – September 22, 2016 Maybe
the best romances are founded on differences, not compatibility. That’s
the intriguing question raised by Bridget
Jones’s Baby, the third
movie chronicling the hapless adventures of the unhappily single Bridget
Jones. While Bridget – whom we last saw in 2004’s Bridget
Jones: The Edge of Reason
– has finally whittled herself down to her ideal weight and kicked her
smoking habit, she’s still… single. Previous
movies showed Bridget torn between Mark Darcy (the original Bridget
Jones’ Diary book
borrowed heavily from Jane Austen’s Pride
and Prejudice) and Daniel Cleaver (the cad based on Wickham from Pride
and Prejudice). Ultimately, Bridget chose Darcy, setting herself up
to join the ranks of the happily ever after. Except
she didn’t. In
the new film, we learn that the workaholic tendencies of Darcy, a human
rights lawyer, regularly frustrated Bridget. We see that the differences
between her bubbly, carefree personality and his intense, dignified
manners led to problems, from their mutual embarrassment when a nearly
naked Bridget opens the door to Darcy – and a crowd of others he had
brought home – to Bridget’s insecurities that Darcy made her feel like
a pattering fool. And
when Bridget leaves Darcy, after sleeping with him when they were reunited
as the godparents for a friend’s child, she does so with an emotional
letter that describes how she thinks she cannot once again enter this
cycle of trying to make it work. So
when Bridget discovers she’s pregnant, it’s tempting to hope that the
father isn’t Darcy, but Jack Quant, the dating site entrepreneur and
charmer Bridget met (and yes, slept with) at a music festival her younger
friend had dragged her to. Jack is smiley and cheerful, with none of
Darcy’s brooding. He has an easy way about him that Darcy will never
have. It’s impossible to imagine Darcy doing what Jack does in one
delightful sequence: reenacting what would have happened if he and Bridget
had had a longer relationship, from bringing the first dinner over to
presenting the flowers he would have given her after their first fight to
assembling Ikea furniture together to prove their commitment to their
relationship. And
there’s one more clincher: he and Bridget are compatible. After
Bridget fesses up to Darcy and Jack that she’s not sure which of them is
the father of her child (when she realizes that an amniocentesis – which
could test her baby’s DNA but also has a small chance of leading to a
miscarriage – could hurt her baby, Bridget indignantly storms out of the
doctor’s office, hand protectively over her stomach), the two men warily
scope each other out and seek to one-up each other over helping pregnant
Bridget. In
one scene, Darcy visits Jack’s dating web site, which relies on an
algorithm that shows compatibility. Darcy plugs in his and Bridget’s
names and discovers their compatibility score is 8 percent. Then he plugs
in Jack and Bridget’s names and discovers their compatibility score is
over 90 percent. But
here’s the surprise: Bridget, once again, picks Darcy. It
seems like a baffling choice, a return to another toxic habit. Sure, she
and Darcy have a rich history, but they also have a lousy track record.
Jack offers a bright, shiny future – an easy life of laughter and love. But
that assumes that easy happiness is the goal of romantic love. We
see all that went wrong in Bridget’s past relationship with Darcy. But
we also see that the flighty Bridget of yore has now become a news
producer – something it’s hard to imagine could have happened if she
hadn’t learned about world affairs from the more serious Darcy. And in
an emotional scene, as Bridget discovers she’s in the throes of
contractions, Darcy gets a work call – and throws his phone out the
window, saying Bridget is his world. They
have both taught – and can still teach – each other. And that’s
precisely because they aren’t fully compatible, because they don’t
share many of the same virtues and vices. There’s no doubt Bridget and
Darcy will have more clashes and misunderstandings than Bridget and Jack
would have. But there’s also no doubt that they will experience more
personal growth than Bridget and Jack would have. In
the original Pride
and Prejudice, Jane Austen showed how Elizabeth Bennet and
Fitzwilliam Darcy both changed each other for the better, with Elizabeth
learning to be less judgmental and Darcy learning to be less proud. In
this third Bridget
Jones movie – which
perhaps significantly had Emma Thompson, the screenwriter behind a movie
adaption of Austen’s Sense
and Sensibility, as one of its writers – the Bridget
Jones saga finally
finds its true Austen roots. Love
stories aren’t just about happiness. They’re also about growth,
building character, and transforming oneself. It’s fitting that Bridget
Jones – whose dedication to self-improvement led to her dogged
persistence to lose weight and stop smoking – would bring that same
dedication to her love life, and refuse to settle for anyone less than a
man who would both challenge her and make her happy.
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