Wednesday 11 January

Weight: 10st 2lb; Lbs gained more than should at this point: 8(bad); Alcohol units: 0 (torture); Babies: 1 though (vg).

8pm. My flat. Nightmare day at work. Richard Finch started off, bouncing round the room yelling: "Right! I'm thinking Blair's 'Respect' initiative, I'm thinking graffiti, I'm thinking council-estate thugs, I'm thinking respect... I'm thinking respect... I'm thinking respect..."

He ground to a halt like a wind-up toy winding down. The assembled team stared at him, mildly interested. Found self wondering if repetition of so alien a concept had short-circuited his brain.

"Respect!" Freddo burst out, in his Cambridge falsetto, stepping valiantly into the breach like Julie Andrews in The Sound of Music when Captain Von Trapp loses all heart for "Edelweiss" during the Salzburg talent contest. "Where has it gone? What has happened to it? Where are our English values? - cucumber sandwiches, Thomas the Tank Engine, the red pillar box, the thud of tennis balls, the vicar on his bicycle, we shall fight them on the beaches, an Englishman's word is his bond?"

"Jesus Fucking H Christ, shut up, Freddo," interrupted Richard Finch, wiping snot off his nose. "I've just realised something earth shattering. The question we've all been asking ourselves is answered."

Everyone stared at me. "What?" I hissed.

"Oh come on, Bridget. You are, aren't you? Up the duff? Why else would a woman not drink at the office Christmas party!"

The said "Christmas party" - held only last Thursday - consisted of the trusty team, festivitied-out, slouching reluctantly to the upstairs room of the pub and drinking crap white wine ferociously on empty stomachs to ease the pre-Christmas deja vu. Two people had thrown up by 7.30. Patchouli was sent home comatose in a taxi at 8 and the whole sordid, strip-lit, wilted-decoration affair was over by 9.30. I was, it is true, the only person sober.

"It's scientifically proven! And I'm here to announce our New Year Special Strand! Older Motherhood: Bridget Jones's pregnancy and childbirth - live on camera."

Grrr. I mean: what kind of schizophrenic, split-personality culture do we live in? On the one hand, if a woman doesn't get plastered at the office party, the only possible explanation is that she's pregnant. On the other hand, the leader of the Liberal Democrats is obliged to resign for - as far as can see - being bit of a pisshead in manner of everyone else in the country. He's certainly not as much of a pisshead as Winston Churchill, who used to start the day with two scotch-and-sodas in the bath and carry on drinking till bedtime.

What has Charles Kennedy done exactly? He hasn't been pictured falling out of a taxi with lipstick smeared all over his face and a strap falling of his shoulder.

I mean we're not in bloody California, are we? We're not in the land of " Oh look, you've had a glass of wine at lunchtime - better go to rehab." Hmm. Maybe I should start writing a newspaper column with my opinions. Oh goody, telephone!

"Oh hello, darling, did you see?" - my mother - "Elizabeth Hurley is buying her wedding dress from Debenhams."

Grrr. This is the latest thing with Mum. Having subjected me to years of " When are we getting you married off?" to make me have babies; now that I've got pregnant, in a sickening, last-ditch, far-too-old attempt to have it all, she's trying to get me married before I have the baby. I mean: as if Daniel is going to marry me. He can't even manage to speak to me.

"There's no need to go all quiet, Bridget," she said huffily, adding, lyingly, to disguise her passive-aggressive "get married" as something less sinister. "I was only showing you that Debenhams isn't as unfashionable as you think."

"I think you'll find Elizabeth Hurley's point was precisely the opposite," I said through grinding teeth, "ie she's friends with so many fashionable designers that the only way to avoid offending them is to get her dress from somewhere completely unfashionable."

There was only a second's alarmed hesitation, and then: "Don't be silly, Bridget. Elizabeth Hurley wouldn't say something like that about Debenhams. Anyway don't you think what Tony Blair is doing about Respect is marvellous? I only wish Daddy and I had had access to those parenting classes when you and Jamie were small."

I took a deep breath. "You think I have no respect?"

"Well, I'm not saying you don't have any respect darling. But when it comes to certain things... I mean Debenhams is a very long-established department store."

"I don't think Tony Blair was talking about respect for Debenhams, Mother."

"Well what does he mean, then? He should make himself more clear."

"He means... er..."

I tailed off. Respect for not doing graffiti? Respect for politicians who's main thing is spinning everything? The problem is, it's the wrong way round. You can't tell people to respect people - people respect people for behaving in a ways they respect.

As I said at work only this afternoon: "The only leader I see people really respecting is Prince William. I can see him shaping up to be a spectacular new kind of global leader, insisting on going to Iraq to fight like all the other boys at Sandhurst, making speeches thundering 'If a country cannot send its heir to the throne to field of conflict, if politicians will not send their own sons to die on that field, then let us ask ourselves - is that a conflict we ought to be fighting?'"

"Iieeuw," Finch interrupted leerily. "Bridget wants to shag Prince William while she's pregnant!"

"I think Bridget's confusing Blair's concept of 'respect' with 'want to shag'," snorted Freddo, with a high-pitched whinny.

I mean, honestly. At least "want to shag" nails it down a bit. You don't want to shag people you don't respect, do you? Oh, though. What about Daniel? And come to think of it... actually, I think I'll just go to sleep now.