Wednesday 24 August After
entire day spent compulsively Googling peri-menopause, journey with Jude
and Shaz to purchase late-night pregnancy test was longest of my life.
Felt eerily portentous: my fate as a tragic barren spinster - so long
merely quasi-dreaded as a semi-jokey paranoia - was about become
all-too-real reality. The
sense of existential agony in the minicab was almost palpable. None of
us could speak or look at each other. Eventually, however, I realised
this was because Jude and Shaz were both applying lip-gloss. "What
are you doing?" I burst out. "You both look like Nancy Dell'Olio. Are
you hoping to pick someone up in the pigging chemist?" "Sorry,
Bridge," giggled Shaz. "It's just..." "Times
may change, but standards must remain!" slurred Jude brightly. "Oops!" Stared
furiously out of the window to realise that we were driving past the
white stucco-fronted house where Mark Darcy had first told me he cared: "I
find myself liking you very much, just as you are." Struggling with
wobbling lower lip, I looked up again bravely, straight at the tree
against which Daniel had tried to shag me after the Pergamon Press
Christmas party and had thrown my Agent Provocateur Christmas knickers
up into the branches. Was as if London was littered with gravestones
marking the highlights of my fertile years. "Look,
Bridge," said Jude, glutinous lips glistening in the half light. "You've
got to stop beating yourself up about this double shag. It's been a
strange time for everyone." It
was true. Looking back, the heady interludes with Mark and Daniel seemed
so symptomatic of the hope of early summer. First there was the
heatwave, then Live 8, then the Olympics and suddenly after all the
years of feeling grotty and ashamed (what with all the papers saying how
crap everyone is all the time) it was our turn to shine and Britain was
great and on top again. Then the very next day, with the front pages
still showing cheering crowds and Union Jacks, we got bombed and now
instead of feeling great we're bickering about cover-ups and re-obsessed
with Sven and Nancy and I'm having a peri-menopause alone in a taxi with
Jude and Shaz. "No,
Jude," Shaz said strictly. "The real point is - as Michael Buerk would
tell her - sleeping with Mark and Daniel is irrelevant because they are
irrelevant because they are men. Haven't I been telling you for years
that men would soon merely be kept in kennels as pets? Now it's been
confirmed by a top BBC war correspond... Stooooop! There's the pigging
chemist." Once
back in flat, worst thing about weeing on stick business was it brought
back all pregnancy tests had done in past - going back to late teens
when getting pregnant was worst disaster imaginable and feared to be
possible through light petting. Felt complete idiot that had let all
those chances go by, month after month, worrying about completely
unimportant details like what society would think, or not having quite
the right partner, or any money, till suddenly it was too late. "Well?"
said Shazzer as I emerged clutching the stick. "I
don't know, do I?" I said huffily. "I've only just done it." Give
it to me," said Shazzer. Held pregnancy test out of her reach. There
followed an unseemly scramble, culminating in Shazzer crashing down with
Jude in a women's wrestling sex-sandwich manner: the stick tumbling
gently on to the carpet. There were two square windows. The first
contained a dark blue line. In the second, the one which usually comes
up empty, something was starting, tremblingly to appear. "You can't..."
began Shaz, just as I was thinking the same thing, "...be a little bit
pregnant." The
little line was so faint it was almost imaginary, but was gradually
growing clearer and more confident of its own existence. The three of us
stared at the stick as if it had fallen to Earth from the skies, and was
something holy and glowing from Close Encounters of the Third Kind. "What
if she's pregnant with both of them," said Shaz in an awed whisper. "Like
twins." "No,
you can't," said Jude, bossily. "What
do you mean?" said Shaz. "Well
the first sperm blocks the second. Or the dominant one blocks the
non-dominant one or something." "Well
what about when someone has one white twin and one black twin?" "That's
different eggs but the same sperm..." "That's
just fucking stupid," snarled Shaz. "A woman can't have white fucking
eggs and black fucking eggs." This
was not how I had imagined this moment would be. I thought I would be
with square-jawed love of my life, bound to me in a Natasha
Kaplinsky-type Babington House nuptial. I imagined him returning from
work in a suit to the joyous news, taking me tenderly in his arms in the
large but slightly tasteless farmhouse kitchen of a Hello-style
renovated Elizabethan manor house in Kent. I did not imagine I would be
in my flat with Jude and Shaz having an insane swearing row about black
and white eggs while drunkenly chain-smoking. "Why
do you have to be so bombastic about everything?" Jude was growling. "What
if she has a white father and a black mother? What does she get then?" "Speckled
eggs," cackled Shaz. "Shut
up, shut up," I burst out. A feeling was welling up inside me. After all
the fuckwits, all the failed New Year's resolutions, all the Silk Cuts,
chardonnay and hangovers, all the phone calls which never came, all the
years of drifting rudderless and dysfunctional, thinking everybody knew
how to do it better than me, and I was about to get it right tomorrow if
only I could work out what it was: suddenly something magical and new
had happened to me: it was a miracle. "I'm..."
I whispered, tears starting to trickle through my mascara as I reached
for a celebratory Silk Cut, and Jude grabbed it out of my hand. "I'm
going to have a baby." |